Chad, the
National and a Special day
Sixty years ago
Chad Varah – a London
vicar - founded Samaritans. He was
inspired by an experience he had as a young curate in Lincoln when a 14 year old girl killed herself. She believed she had an STD when in reality
she was just menstruating.
Varah advertised for people to volunteer at his church to
listen to people contemplating suicide.
The movement grew and there are now 203 branches across the
UK and
Ireland.
In 2004 the number of volunteers had diminished and they campaigned
to recruit more young people. Phil
Selway a drummer with the band Radiohead and a volunteer himself fronted the campaign.
The Samaritans is a telephone helpline which operates 24 hours
a day, 365 days a year. There is also a
drop-in service for face to face discussion and they train prisoners as’Listeners’
to provide support within prisons.
Recently they have started sending teams out on to the street.
The Samaritans have always stressed that the service they
provide is not counselling and will not give advice. Although they are trained in many of the same
techniques as professional counsellors they neither judge nor tell people what
to do. By listening and asking questions
the volunteers help people explore their feelings and work their own way forward.
Samaritans do not denounce suicide and it is not necessary
to be suicidal to contact them. They
believe that by giving people the opportunity to be listened to in confidence and
accepted without prejudice enables them to explore their feelings and work
their own way forward.
There is a strict code of confidentiality, even after the
death of a caller. This is only broken on
rare occasions such as when Samaritans receive a bomb or terrorist warnings or
when a caller is threatening volunteers or deliberately preventing the service being
used by other callers.
…
On a lighter note it is the 50th anniversary of our great National Theatre which
first started in 1963 at the Old Vic under Laurence Olivier.
‘ 800 productions
later we are marking our half century with a short season celebrating the remarkable
people and plays that have made the NT one of the most cherished and creative
of great British institutions.’
I count myself fortunate to have seen some of these. I particularly remember the excitement and
anticipation before Olivier’s first entrance as Othello. Of course now it would be unthinkable to have
a white actor ‘blacked up’ to play the part but times were different then. There was a gasp as he appeared; he seemed to
have grown in stature – his voice had dropped a couple of octaves, reminiscent
of Paul Robeson
And there was a stillness about him which made all his later
rage and fury totally riveting.
Oh and he carried a beautiful long- stemmed red rose on his
entrance which we were led to believe was delivered each day by his wife, Joan
Plowright, from their garden.
…
It would have been MTL’s birthday today. He used to mark important dates in the diaries
at the beginning of the year and - unbeknownst to me had written:-
November 4th
– A’s Birthday?
20 comments:
((hugs))
Such a good post, you posted it twice!
Good work, Keep it up.
a tough day - lots of thoughts speeding your way
Love to you, Pat xxx
I didn't know anything about the Samaritans. Thanks for schooling me.
You saw Olivier in Othello?! That's quite a get. I was lucky enough to see Anthony Hopkins in the National's landmark production, Pravda. They didn't SAY he was playing Rupert Murdoch, but we all knew better.
So good they named it twice :D
November 7th is Ron's Birthday.
Kim: :)
AndrewM: now corrected but can't get rid of the gap before the comments. If I fiddle too much I'll lose the whole caboosh.
Roseneath: much appreciated.
Z: thank you Zoe
Exile: I think I remember him having an extraordinary accent.
You must have something similar to Samaritans surely?
LOM: all because I corrected an error. Normally they replace the copy with the error with the corrected one.
Granny Annie: these days just have to be endured. I'll be thinking of you.xox
I heard that Sir Larry has a wee photie of you on his wall. Cannae blame him though, you are quite a stunner.
I love the idea of The Samaritans....Sometimes all a person needs is to be listened to without comment or judgement....
Not an easy day today, my dear Pat....
Sending you BIG BIG Hugs, dear sweet Pat.
(((((((HUGS))))))))
Lovely post today but also a sad one.
Sending you a big hug.
Woofs from the Square Ones
cheers, parsnip
:¬)
xxx
More hugs.
Sxx
Chef: och awa' wi' ye!
Naomi: nearly over now and I know all our families share the sadness.
Parsnip: love to you and the boys.
Maurchen and Scarlet: thank you.
To my shame I didn't know the name Chad Varah, so thank you for pointing me to some information about this modern-day hero. I've also spent many hours at The National - happy memories.
Gadjo: he is now departed of course.
I think there was a golden age in the National which we were lucky to have seen.
So YTL was a scorpio. What sign are you Pat? Just curious....
We need Samaritans here! Suicide is high. I still think about the man on the seawall, how he must have been in such pain. He'd told his friends but they didn't take him seriously. so one newspaper said. My neighbour too said he was such a lovely man. 71 years old.
I'm going to find out about starting something here.
SDC: yes he was Scorpio and I'm Pisces.
GG: It would be wonderful if you could start a version of Samaritans.
You probably know I was a Samaritan
for years and someone close to me - I'm not meant to talk about it - is very involved in the present format.
Let me know if you want to ask any questions which might be helpful and I'll pass them on to him.
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