A lovely surprise
On Tuesday I went to my first B Group for 3 weeks and there
were some new faces and our leader Veronica was back from her trip up
north. Hugs were omitted as she had had
a tummy bug. One of the new members
brought a tear to my eye. She had met
her husband at 16 and they married when she was 19. They had been together for decades and now
she was alone. Not an unusual story but
somehow I found her demeanour very moving.
Joy didn’t make the meeting but we have a standing
arrangement that unless she phones we will meet at the Bistro. After a while it became clear she wasn’t
coming and when I phoned she apologised and said she didn’t feel up to it
although she was all ready to come. The
next time I see her I shall make certain she has my mobile number.
I decided to have lunch anyway and joined the Separate Table
Group where one sits alone and chats notwithstanding to the other tables. Very chummy.
At last we seem to be having a spell of fine weather and my
handyman turned up today. He refused my
offer of a rope ladder and climbed out from the attic window to discover where
the leak was. He found a hole in the
flashing under the left attic window. I
crept into the front edge of the attic loft and could just see M waving his
paint brush at the site of the hole. We
then went out onto the lawn and identified the spot as being directly over the
damage in the corner of the nursery and guest bedroom.
After he repaired the hole he said we would give it a week
and all being well he would come and repair and make good the damage.
I have a couple of writing projects at the moment and then I
am going to give serious thought to putting my story on e-books.
Oh and the lovely surprise:
Veronica had taken Peter with her – an early member of the group and for
the last few months Veronica’s boy friend.
We only see him now at the social groups as he no longer feels
eligible. When they were planning their
trip which encompassed Yorkshire and Cumbria
they spotted the proximity of Gretna Green and
YES dear reader they got wed.
Tummy bug or no tummy bug I had to go and give Veronica a
big hug. We saw a couple of photos; her
very hairy dog had a make over and feathers in her hair and what I could see of
V and P (they were almost hidden by a large lady minister –these were just
snaps) they looked happy and indeed the sun did shine on them.
Veronica had a beautiful Gaelic wedding ring with tiny
Gaelic animals encircling it.
It had a Greek look at first glance. To my horror she took it off to let Sylvia look
more closely but was reassured that Veronica isn’t at all superstitious so all
should be well. D.V.
Lately I have had a decision problem which has been bugging
me. I talked it over with one of the
family and his advice was to put the problem in a box, close the box, put it in
a drawer to be looked at after my holiday in May and not to bother thinking
about it till then. It works for me.
14 comments:
Congratulations and best wishes to your newly married friends!!
And I am all for putting your problems in a box and hiding it for a while. Good idea.
What a nice time with Veronica. Yes, that box is what I use too. Usually I tie a ribbon around it.
Oddly enough I was out at Gretna Green last week, for the first time. An old friend of mine was over in Scotland from Canada with her fella. She was taking him around different parts of Scotland and Gretna's only an hour or so from where I live, so it was a good excuse to meet up.
Judy: it seems to be working for me. I'll pass on your congrats.
Mage: I'll put a ribbon on right now.
Kim: were they not tempted? Although I think you have to give 3 weeks notice. Al and I went but we were already hitched
I hope I am not being insensitive or rude, but what ever happened to Dr. Maroon of Cape to Rio fame? He was a favourite respite back in 2006. I think the two of you were/are connected somewhat. Yes?
As for the box, I find the use of South American Worry People talismans to do the trick nicely.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Worry_doll
I don't have anything earth-shattering to say but I just wanted to mention how much I enjoy these updates. They briefly take me to another world. Isn't that what reading is for?
Lovely news congratulations to your friend.
The box idea is interesting. I use a rubber band on my wrist. Right now I have something that is bothering me so back with the rubber band, every time I think of it zap on the wrist.
cheers, parsnip
Aquarians: I did read and comment on Dr Maroon's blog as did he on mine. That was quite a long time ago - I wonder what happened to him? No other connection that I am aware of.
Exile: you would be missed if you didn't drop by.
Parsnip: ouch - that sounds painful but whatever works for you:)
It sounds like you have a lovely network of friends. My parents are still housebound as my Dad is so unwell, and many people from the church we attend have offered my mother help, but she turns it down, and only accepts it from me. I find it this hard, as I could do with someone else sharing the load, especially as in a few weeks I should be returning to the States for a bit. I wish my mother would have your attitude to life, embracing both family and friends.
Joey: I do hope your Dad improves soon. It is very hard on you to have to carry the load alone. Mothers can be areal pain in the bum - as I'm sure my sons would agree - occasionally.
I have several items of concern. Do I need several boxes or one for the lot? If I tie ribbons around each one it will look like Christmas around here.
Granny Annie: whatever works for you but I think the whole point is they should be out of sight until you feel ready to deal with them. Good luck.
My dear lady, problems and concerns always look so much different when viewed with a tinge of dust due to storage. I thought of you today as I stood amongst a sea of wonderful roses. The most beautiful one of all was missing. We shall take high tea on my return, I shall bake and we will talk of many things as we sip from your finest cups.
Chef: that would be 'a lovely surprise' indeed:)
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