An Imperfect Life
People like me?
Chapter 31
New Maldon seemed quite a pleasant
place and it was a short walk past shops to the station; convenient for both
William and myself, should the modelling become a possibility.
“The Sweeneys have invited us for
tea. Remember Pat – we’re in the south
now and that means afternoon tea- sandwiches, cakes and biscuits not your lusty
high tea – that’s their dinner.”
Lunch to us was what we had
mid–morning at school but in the south it was the equivalent of our dinner. Crikey!
Would I ever get used to it?
The flat owners lived in an old house next door- Mr and Mrs Sweeney and
their teen –age son. The table was
beautifully laid with an embroidered cloth and silver tea-pot. William’s eyes gleamed when he spotted the
crumpets – simply oozing with butter. It
was a bit sticky making polite conversation and trying to eat at the same time.
William had an attractive speaking
voice – apart from his stammer, but I wasn’t attuned to this particular Surrey accent. It
wasn’t that Mrs Sweeney was posh because Fleur, my sister in law was posh and
she had quite a raucous voice. Mrs S
spoke in a very gentle voice and was ‘refained’ so when she said she had heard
I was fond of ‘ceiling’ I thought perhaps she was referring to my house
painting and went off at a tangent.
“No no! Ceiling !
Ceiling!” By now she was getting
a bit riled. In panic I looked
desperately to William for enlightenment but his mouth was stuffed with
crumpet. He finally swallowed and then
started to stammer and laugh at the same time which made everybody talk at once
in their embarrassment.
“THE BROADS !”
he roared. The penny dropped.
“Oh sailing! Yes we love it!” trying to stifle my
giggles. Sighs of relief all round and I
felt a prize idiot – couldn’t even speak the language. In spite of it all we seemed to pass
muster. Although Mrs S appeared both
fragile and whimsy it was clear who wore the trousers and she even gave me a
light kiss as we said goodbye.
The flat was ground floor and furnished and I couldn’t wait to
personalise it with our own pictures and linen.
We decided to hire a van to bring down essentials and the rest would go
into store.
The next fortnight went quickly as I finished at the hospital, said
goodbye to friends and family and finally moved south. Now to find a house we could afford, settle
in and - at last - start a family. I
couldn’t wait!
A typical northerner I set off down south with a few prejudices and a
slight chip on my shoulder but determined to be open –minded and to give people
the benefit of the doubt. I knew I was
going to miss the cheery, friendly, unashamed nosiness I had known all my life
but it was time to grow up and discover the world.
I soon had the flat looking as if it belonged to us and our first visitors
were my sister Maddie and her boy friend George. They had great news; they were going to be
married and were buying a large house – with the aunts - in Caterham. Maddie’s son was going to leave boarding
school and would be educated locally.
George worked as a radio officer with BOAC but to my great relief Maddie
was leaving BOAC and was looking for a job locally.
We had heard some shocking news recently: one of the girls in Maddie’s
year at school, who had also joined BOAC as a stewardess had been killed in a
Comet plane crash. Maddie also had a
frightening experience when the plane she was in developed a problem and was
forced to circle the airport for hours to use up petrol. Maddie had to keep calm and to reassure the
passengers. They landed safely and she
was given a citation from Sir Miles Thomas.
We were delighted she was going to look for a safer and less stressful
job.
We met our neighbours in the flat above.
The wife Renata, was Rumanian and very sweet and friendly but I didn’t
take to her husband who was a big burly Londoner. Looked and sounded exactly like a wide boy –
a spiv. During the war a spiv was a
person living by his wits and engaging in petty black market dealings. You wanted a bit of extra bacon, sugar, coal
or petrol (gas) the spiv was your man.
Never mind the sailors in the Merchant Navy and on tankers risked and
often lost their lives providing these things; the spiv didn’t have a
conscience.
“What happened to your determination not to prejudge people – you’re
just imagining things.” William was
right so when they invited us to go out for a drink with them we agreed.
It was a perfect summer evening and they took us to a pub on the
river. We sat in a garden with willow
trees drooping elegantly in the water and the swans were like a corps de ballet
warming up for Swan
Lake
The spiv had manufactured a
shilling (the required coin) on a wire so he could insert it in the meter ad
then retrieve it. I looked at William’s
face and could see he was shocked. This
was cheating – not the gas board etc, but the Sweeneys who were providing both
our families with homes at a reasonable rate when there was a great
scarcity. As the evening wore on the
spiv said you couldn’t sit by the Thames on a
summer night without tasting a Pimm’s. I
had never had one.
“It’s a mixture of gin, quinine and
herbs made into a long drink with lots of fruit floating in it. That’s Pimm’s#1. Pimm’s #2 has a Scotch base and# 3 a brandy.
Now what’s your poison Pat?”
I decided to try a gin base but
William said he would stick to beer. It
did taste delicious and looked so pretty but when I tried to stand up to go the
rest room I fell over. Suddenly I felt
very ill –my head was swimming and I had to be carried to the car. The next 24 hours were the most wretched I
had ever spent and almost put me off alcohol for life. Later we discovered the spiv had thought it a
jolly wheeze to put double rum in the Pimm’s - in addition to the gin. I think I was right about him in the first
place.
We decided to avoid our neighbours after my disastrous evening with them
and started looking at maps and deciding where to house hunt. Neither of us wanted to live in so urban a
place as New Malden. We wanted a house
with a garden, a decent living room, a kitchen big enough to eat in and three
bedrooms. Oh and a garage! We didn’t have a car but we expected – in the
fullness of time, to have all of that.
The first house agent asked all
sorts of questions about our financial state and took us to see a house in an
unattractive area.
“Why have you brought us to see
this house? Apart from anything else it
only has two bedrooms and no garage.”
“Mrs Maitland, forget the
garage! With your finances there’s no
way you can afford a car so you don’t need a house with a garage!”
I was incensed! How dare he?
Who was he to put limits on my life style and deprive my children of
somewhere to house their father’s car?
The fact – as William pointed out – that we had neither car nor children
did little to diminish my outrage.
We tried another agent and another area.
Gradually we were moving further and further out in the suburbs until we
reached Epsom. It was a lovely town in
the fifties, with the Downs and the famous
race course an added bonus. We were
having a drink and a sandwich in a pub in the centre of town and were entranced
when mine host answered the phone in a deep gravelly voice with the thickest of
Surrey accents,
“Marquis o’Granby ‘ere!”
The only house agent open on Sunday was what we thought was a slightly
fishy firm- widely advertised with the emphasis on the wide. The agent had a handle bar moustache, and flat,
Brylcream-ed hair. A dead ringer for Sam
Costa who used to be in the marvellous radio programme ‘Round the Horn’. We told him what we wanted and he said he had
just the place. Well he would wouldn’t
he? The snag was it was in a little
hamlet – a bus ride from town which meant commuting by train and bus.
It was a bungalow and fitted all
our requirements except for the garage, but there was space for one. From one of the bedrooms you could see the
race horses being exercised on the Downs . The decor was a bit dreary but amazingly Sam
told us we could have each room redecorated at their expense. I couldn’t believe it. He drove us back to Epsom and suggested he
took us for a cup of tea. After a cream
bun I was putty in his hands and wanted to make an offer there and then but William
insisted we should talk it over and phone the agent that night.
All the way back on the train I prattled on about furniture, colours,
which room would be the nursery- I was in love with a bungalow and William did
his best to rein me in but I could tell he was excited too.
I needed to earn if I was going to
make the house beautiful. The next day
William made an offer to the agent and I phoned Marta. Miraculously she answered the phone and
seemed to be delighted to hear from me.
“Now Pat darling you don’t know London
I dressed with great care: dark grey suit, fresh white blouse, little
white gloves and high heels. I caught an early train and found myself in Piccadilly
an hour early. Drifting round the Store
I discovered the Ladies Room had an actual Rest Room where you could recline on
a sofa and rest aching feet.
At 12.25 I was bright eyed and
bushy tailed waiting to greet Marta. At
1.25 I was still waiting
At 2pm I was a bit tearful- my feet
were hurting so much. Wearily I limped
back where William – home early - gave me tea and sympathy, suggesting I phone
Marta after dinner.
“Marta are you alright?”
“Pat darling! Yes why shouldn’t I be?”
“I was supposed to meet you and…”
“Oh my God! I’ve been so busy – I totally forgot. Pat darling I hope you didn’t wait long.”
“Well actually…”
“You see darling most people would
know that if I wasn’t there I’d be at the Ritz or the Dorchester
– or lunching at the Ivy. I have to
remember when I’m dealing with people like you.”
Those words echoed in my head long
after the conversation was over.
